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Weathering the Storm
"Suddenly a furious storm came up on the lake, so that the waves swept over the boat. But Jesus was sleeping. The disciples went and woke him, saying, 'Lord, save us! We're going to drown!' He replied, 'You of little faith, why are you so afraid?' Then he got up and rebuked the winds and the waves, and it was completely calm." ~ Matthew 8:24-26 A massive winter storm is heading my way as I type. I have plenty of food, water, kerosene for the emergency heater, and power banks
Jan 233 min read


Wait for It
"Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord." ~ Psalm 27:14 Patience has never been one of my strengths. When I've done the MBTI, or Myers Briggs assessment , I am an SJ, meaning I prefer Sensing and Judging. One characteristic of SJs is acting quickly to solve a problem - we see what's wrong, get initial data, and act quickly on solving the problem as the data indicates. An example of this can be needing to buy a car. The SJ type of person will feel th
Dec 27, 20253 min read


Expect the Unexpected
"As it is written in Isaiah the prophet: ' I will send my messenger ahead of you, who will prepare your way.'" ~ Mark 1:2 My mother shared with me her suspicion that Dad was developing dementia while we were at lunch one afternoon in 2017. She started the conversation by stating that she didn't want him driving into the city anymore because he "wasn't as sharp as he used to be." They traveled a fair amount both locally and long-distance, having fun exploring and, for Dad, doi
Dec 4, 20253 min read


Cry, Baby
Crying is a healthy way to release hard emotions like grief.
Nov 29, 20252 min read


Come On, Get Happy
"So I realized that all we can do is be happy and do the best we can while we are still alive. All of us should eat and drink and enjoy what we have worked for. It is God's gift." ~ Ecclesiastes 3:12-13 I was a Girl Scout for most of my young life. I enjoyed every minute. We went camping, explored the beach , had lock-ins at the science museum . It was great. Our troop leaders were always coming up with new things to try and we were always up for the experience. One Christma
Nov 22, 20252 min read


If You Don't Ask, the Answer is Always No
"So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to you; Seek and you will find; Knock and the door will be opened to you." ~ Luke 11:9 Grief is unsettling, to say the least. As one of Dad's live-in caregivers, my days and nights were laid out according to his schedule, his needs. I knew exactly who I was at any given moment: his caregiver. I started a new job a week after Dad died. I thought it was a great opportunity and I would be happy there. It wasn't great and I wasn't happy.
Nov 16, 20253 min read


The Stuff That Really Matters
"But God said to him, 'You fool! This very night you will have to give up your life; then who will get all these things you have kept for yourself?'" ~ Luke 12: 20 My father enjoyed stuff. He was a hard-core genealogist and had books, newspapers, magazines, photographs, silhouettes, and anything else that might remotely relate to one or more of our ancestors. He vacationed in cemeteries, collecting information for the family tree that now has over 250, 000 names in it. If an
Nov 15, 20253 min read


The Perfect Gift
"...'Pardon me, my lord, as surely as you live, I am the woman who stood here beside you praying to the Lord. I prayed for this child, and the Lord granted me what I asked of him. So now I give him to the Lord. For his whole life, he will be given over to the Lord.'..." ~ 1 Samuel 1: 26-28 Hannah is a woman of the Bible whom I admire greatly. She not only believed the Lord would answer her prayer, she also accepted the gift God gave in response as just that - a gift. She pra
Nov 12, 20252 min read


Married to Christ
All marriages have their ups and downs. Mine is no different. I realize, however, the downs are all on me.
Nov 5, 20252 min read


Photograph the Divine
"This is the message we have heard from him and declare to you: God is light; in him there is no darkness at all." ~ 1 John 1:5 I love photography. A great photo is all about light : how the light touches the subject, how soft the light is, how much light is in the frame. Is it any wonder that I love this way of showcasing light? God, who is light itself, is present all around us. All photos capture some of God's presence in the way they capture the light. Black and white ph
Nov 5, 20252 min read
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